
Most men don’t fail because they’re lazy.
They fail because they try to change behaviour before they change identity.
You can follow any plan, lift heavy, eat clean, and grind through workouts, but if you still see yourself as the guy who never sticks to it, you’ll always slide back.
This isn’t fitness coaching. It’s identity reprogramming that changes how you think, move, and live.
I don’t just help you train and eat better.
I help you become the man who doesn’t need to be motivated to do it.
Because when you change who you are, the habits follow naturally.
That’s the power of identity.
That’s why my clients succeed where others quit.
When you join my Identity Coaching System, you don’t just get a plan.
You get a personal transformation built entirely around your life.
Here’s what’s inside:
🔥 The 6-Step Identity Coaching Framework
We define who you want to become and map out the exact process to get there, step by step:
Face Your Truth
Define Your 2.0
Build the Proof
Tame the Chimp
Callous the Mind
Training Camp
💪 Fully Tailored Training Plan
Custom workouts built around your body, gym, and goals. Whether you’re chasing strength, fat loss, or performance, every session adds proof to your new identity.
🥗 Custom Nutrition System
A simple, sustainable structure that fits around real life. No starvation or restriction, just clarity, control, and consistency.
📱 Daily WhatsApp Access
You get me in your pocket. Real-time voice notes, feedback, mindset resets, and accountability when you need it most.
🧭 Weekly Progress Reviews
We track what’s working, fix what’s not, and adjust your plan to keep you moving forward.
🧠 Mindset and Identity Coaching
Weekly reflection tools, voice lessons, and guided mindset resets to rewire your beliefs so your actions match your ambitions.
🎥 In-Session and Video Coaching
Form checks, technique videos, and feedback so you can train confidently and with purpose.
Step 1: Face Your Truth
Get radically honest about where you are, what’s holding you back, and how your habits reflect your current identity.
Step 2: Define Your 2.0
Create the vision of who you want to become, your upgraded identity, mindset, and standards.
Step 3: Build The Proof
Every rep, meal, and choice becomes evidence of your new identity.
Step 4: Tame The Chimp
Silence the impulsive part that chases comfort and instant gratification. Replace it with calm, focused follow-through.
Step 5: Callous The Mind
Build resilience through consistent action. No hype, no excuses, just discipline.
Step 6: Training Camp
Once the foundations are built, we enter an intense 4- to 8-week phase to lock in your 2.0 mentally, physically, and emotionally.
✅ You’ll stop believing the old story that’s been holding you back.
✅ You’ll lose fat and build muscle without obsession.
✅ You’ll develop structure, confidence, and control in every area of life.
✅ You’ll feel calmer, stronger, and more capable.
✅ You’ll stop starting over because you’ll finally become the man who never quits.
This isn’t a plan you try.
It’s an identity you build.
Most men drift through life chasing short-term motivation.
You don’t need more hype. You need a rebuild that makes discipline automatic.
That’s what this system gives you.
Clarity. Confidence. Identity.
If you’re ready to rebuild your body, mind, and standards, start your rebuild today.
No. Fitness is the vehicle. What I coach is transformation of your body, mindset, and habits through identity change.
A PT changes your workout. I help you change your wiring.
Once that happens, training, food, and discipline become automatic.
No. Your bespoke plan fits your setup, whether that’s a gym, home equipment, or a mix.
Three to five hours a week. The difference isn’t time, it’s focus.
Yes, because it’s not built on motivation. It’s built on identity. Once you become the man who does the work, it never stops.

For years I tried. Tried every plan, fad diet and gimmick. And every time, I failed.
It took me a decade to realise, it was my identity that was pulling me back. The overweight version of me, the guy who would eat Greggs for lunch without a thought, was never going let me get into shape.
Until I created a new version of myself.
That identity shift unlocked a new future for me.
- David, Be That Guy Coaching

Deep down I used to see myself as the guy who always quit. Now I’m the guy who doesn’t miss a workout. Once that identity clicked, the weight started falling off, and it’s never coming back.
- Matt, 47, Financier

I used to think I was destined to be the ‘big guy.’ Now I see myself as fit, disciplined and healthy. I'm That Guy I always wanted to be. I can't thank David enough, the body followed the identity.
John, 41, Estate Agent

I was always chasing motivation. Now I don’t need it, I have discipline from my core identity. I became That Guy, the one who shows up no matter what. That identity shift made the transformation stick
Josh, 34, Teacher, New Parent.
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